13th March 2010, 02:05 AM
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How to talk to a girl
I think you must have tried speaking or calling a girl but was unable to think what to talk about? or how to talk or to start?
It's very first question everyone gets in mind and most of guys feel puzzled about it. There are number of things which you always need to keep in mind while speaking to girls. As I said in my previous thread that girls evaluate guys by there personality, outlooks and way of talking so its must to keep all these things up to get her attention.
These are some proven ways by which you can get desired results.
The Correct Start: Hi, Hello, What's up, wazzup, how are you n blah blah blah.. these are too old to attract her attention, so now onwards you need to try something new and catchy coz girls are bored and sick of these simple hi helloz. Most guys make the incorrect start (with hi hello words) and that's the main reason why they take lot of time or fail. Open your conversation with something extraordinary which can catch her attention, girls will never continue exciting or interactive conversation till the time they find something distinct about you.
Keep it short but complex: Some guy's like to talk forever which is a big turnoff for girls, if you talk a lot then she will come to know everything about yourself and that feel of knowing more will die in her heart only, keep your things hidden and let her feel your mysterious smile . Girls enjoy taking to mysterious guys and they feel such guys are worth talking. Don't throw too much information about yourself or your surroundings coz even that info can give her a chance to know those things which she is not supposed to know.
Silence: Its the worst situation you can ever imagine or can face. In previous paragraph i asked to keep the things small and mysterious but i never asked to stay silent. If you will stay silent then also you are boring and once a girl is bored she will not think much about you or your feelings. Keep shooting topics/ hints from your side and let her speak, let her say all those things which she always wanted to say but never said to anyone (be it her problems at work or anywhere).
Early exit: It good to finish early or to leave a topic open while talking to girls. If you keep the climax of story in your hand then it will keep her interest alive, she will always look for more n more talks and she would love talking to you (remember those gilry soaps, in which they always stop show after bringing it to exciting turn, which keeps you tuned to same serial or tv show).
These are basics of same topic but still there is a lot n thanks for your support and PM's but I request you to please keep this space updated (not only my PM inbox) 
Last edited by Metal; 16th March 2010 at 04:18 AM.
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