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Old 23rd September 2011, 04:47 PM
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Unhappy Why do couples fight

It happens between all the couples,they fight sometimes daily sometimes alternate, I am searching for an answer that when they love each other so much then why these cat fight take place?
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There are quite a few reasons for this in my mind
* Lack of understanding
* Inappropiate answers by any of the partner
* Not giving `100% of time and bond to relationship
* Avoiding your partners needs and may be avoiding your partner for your friends and other things

Still I have few more in my mind...
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i agree with admin

yet there are couples too that fights so hard...and love so muchh,,...so extremes...

i guess it depends on the two individuals what type/ style of relationship they like to have... and how they have started it..

sometimes fighting is good..coz right after the fight... u feel the heat of your love burning.. and will give nice feeling to both (base on my experience).

but if fighting is something getting serious and extremely offending/ hurting to one another... there's something wrong with the relationship..can be a question of

satisfaction, attention, affection, intimacy, understanding, or even love....

maybe that relationship must end if those thing above are at risk already... unless if they both can find a way to recover... :-)
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Lack of maturity on one or both the the sides is usually the reason. Infact immaturity accounts for all the things admin has mentioned . If you love someone you will see to it that you behave in a way that is comfortable to your partner, so if you dont or you cannot then you haven't really thought about what your partner wants . So when a person says I love him /her they are just talking about the passion they feel they need to mature to start caring which is when the other person will feel your love else fights will be an everyday affair.
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there are also couples who find fighting as sweet thing for them...

its their way of showing affection and love... a unique style of relationship ..and they just like it.
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Hmm... They probably enjoy the " kiss and make up " phenomenon
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Hmm... They probably enjoy the " kiss and make up " phenomenon
What if they are in long distance relationship
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distance can be one factor that may cause fighting too... but if both parties are having real love and trust ..no doubts and all... no much fighting will happen...

when they fight, maybe sweet words will do to ease ones feeling...
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