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Old 18th September 2011, 02:25 AM
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Post Relationship: When you love someone

To love somebody is not just a strong feeling, it is also a decision, a judgement. A love story through the letters exchanged between a Poet n a Painter. A relationship between words and colours. Together they the writer and the artist lived in the world of colours, thoughts, words and poems. A beautiful commitment for life. Their letters reflect their yearnings for each other and the evolution of their relationship, and the love these two extraordinary shared.
They never said `I love you' to each other as they said that it was not needed. I found that this relationship is extraordinary. The handwritten letter delivered by the government postal service was the only recourse available for them, charted their careers in different cities the relationship flowered for more than forty years. He devoted all his life to his beloved and the ritual of marriage never fascinated them. When you love someone, you just accept the person in totality.
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Sex ??? What about that in this story ?
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yes its true.. intimacy should also be present in the relationship...sex(can be a part of that...or other ways).

"When your relationship starts to break down, you need AAA: an Apology, Affection, and a promise of Action. You say you're sorry for what you've said or done to hurt or disappoint your partner. You immediately offer a hug, a kiss—some meaningful gesture of warmth. You pledge to do something that matters to your partner ('From now on, I will…'). And, of course, you stick to that. This whole AAA thing can take two minutes, but in that time you've healed the past, built a bridge to the present, and created hope for your future."

both individuals must also have acknowledged that they both feel the love for each other...not just one but both.. :-)

lastly....being in love can bring u happiness and disappointments as well...

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I totally agree with this AAA thing and to save or to keep any relationship both the partners must take initiatives and should behave mature to understand complications and the reason of probelm. After applying the AAA thing they should always kill/eleminate the reason of fight (just to make sure that it is not happening again)
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@ P : yes AAA is the true balm , the ultimate pain killer
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are you practicing the AAA thing adi? how about the third A?
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Love is the contact of soul to soul. The Painter and the Writer is on the journey of love, feeling was
pure n divine. They hearts pumps blood of care, respect, trust . Passion for life and passion in love
are the same thing. This is because life, in its essence, is love. Reading their letters is like watching
some fairytale. When they met she was into a loveless marriage ,fell in love with a bachelor, who is
much younger to her. The cold frost of long and lonely years, which she spent before he came into
her life was now melted with the warmth of his love and care for her. They loved each other and
withstood all opposition. Their courage and conviction made them great lovers of their time. Their
love was growing day by day in the form of their letters is still hard to believe.

The pen and paper was the evidence of their love, they
discussed each day’s happening with each other even if it took days for the other to receive the
letter. Sharing soul is much pure than sharing thoughts. They are true Soulmates.
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such a nice love story aditi... hope they could live happily ever after...
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yess they were..still a lot more to come..
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they were?..is that a true to life story?
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