I want to know if my hymen is broken or not, very soon i am getting married and don't want to face embarrassment on first night. I know girls bleed on first night but i am afraid that my hymen is already broke as i used tampon for some time and have even tried masturbation several times. I don't want to be a shame for my family, please guide or suggest something by which i can bring the things back to normal state as they were in beginning.

I am still confused if my hymen is broken or not yet and if I will bleed on first night or not?